I've always been of the mind that I have to get to know a guy first, before divulging a lot of info about me, in order to know who he is and know his intentions toward me. The guy I met at the party I went to Saturday seems like a really nice guy. The more I talk to him and get to know him, I find myself ticking off a couple items off my list. You know, the "list." I asked him today what he thought of me and he said I'm interesting, but I'm hiding so he doesn't know me fully yet, but I'm definitely intriguing based on the snippets he's been given. He's physically attracted t me but he's still learning or attempting to learn what makes me tick. I told him that I have to know someone and their intentions before I open myself up to them and he said that he's the opposite. He has to know someone before he knows what his full intentions are toward them. He also said that he knows he likes me and is attracted to me but does that really count? Can he get along with me, can we have a good together, etc. That's what he wants to know and by getting to know each other, we can then see how far we'd be willing to take this interaction. When he finished, I sat for a while to think about all he'd said and have an idea of what to do next.
Today is my off day from both work and school and i pretty much stayed up all night, watching tv and now blogging. I'm a bag of mixed emotions because of the mayhem going on in my mother's house and the fact that i'm back w/ my ex boyfriend, I'm very happy about that. CG is totally out of the picture, the twat, but for the most part, I'm doing ok. I have God on my side. Truly, psalm 27 is really coming in handy during these trying times. V10: my mother and father may abandon me but the Lord will take care of me. I love the Lord and He has truly heard my cry. God is good. CG Well, last Saturday, i drove CG to the airport before going into work. I'd already been having my misgivings about him but I just shook them off. So, Saturday night he lands in NY. He first sent me a text to let me know he'd gotten there safely earlier in the day. He later called me to chat but my sister, cousin and i were driving to a party and were using my phone as our na
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Hmmm...I'm surprised at what I'm about to say but I'd say his POV is more the logical approach when you think about it.
Suddenly I understand men more!!! Lol!
Don't keep us in suspense! Let us know what you think. Are you warming up to his POV or do you think he's just being 'smooth' about it all?
follow your heart dear!
N if this guy is behind it, i'm withdrawing my blessing!!!!